the person that said that backsplash is dated knows nothing. That's The Tozen, 1x4 brick from Lunada Bay. And it's expensive!
I'll post the same kind of glass like yours w/lighter kitchens.
I wouldn't paint your cabs, not with all of the other wood in your house. What I would do is change out your countertop (if you really want to change and lighten it up). I don't think it's the best match w/that beautiful tile.
I'd also paint your walls a diff color. Don't really care for that yellow/green tone that's currently on the wall. either go w/a smokey blue/gray (that's in the tile) or go w/a brighter, neutral white.
I'd do the Smoke on the walls, and this for your countertop. would be amazeballs
Bianco Avion marble.
or the Python
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flooring white oak
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