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7 years ago

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Have you incorporated Elf on a Shelf into your holiday traditions at home? If so, what have you done with it? Share your best tips!

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7 years ago

Nope. I find the whole notion creepy.

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Alonda Clinton
7 years ago
I am surprised to read that so many find the "elf on a shelf" to be creepy. I had heard of it, seen it in stores, etc but didn't think too much of it until I read an article about who wrote the story and why and I decided I wanted to share the tradition with my grandson. The story was written by a Mother and daughter that live in the Atlanta, GA area (as do I) and that immediately made it more interesting to me. The story is based on their own personal childhood tradition that they decided to share with others. I find the Christmas season to be magical and this little elf helps to bring the magic into my home. The first thing my grandson does each morning when he wakes up is to go find Ella (that's what he named her). When I come home from work it's "Grandma, come look where I found Ella!". He's so excited each day and he share's that excitement with me. I do find the added benefit of having him be on his best behavior a plus! He's only four so he truly believes in the magic of Ella and spirit of love that she represents. I am glad to have this special connection with my grandson and I hope we continue the tradition for years to come. May the spirit and magic of Christmas be in all of us!
M L Radcliffe
7 years ago
No kids @ home, so I don't have it but my daughter does & she as excited as her kid about it.
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No elf here also....
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7 years ago
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1. I'm the KID. I keep the spirit of Christmas alive for me, (65 yrs.) and my grandchildren. And my husband who was a sailor for years, can't wait to decorate now. I have two elves that live in my tree. Thank God for the magic of Christmas.. Can you find both in the bottom picture?
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Guess I'm behind the times. Never heard the story before of the "elf on the shelf". This elf has been around for fifty years, usually on or under the tree.
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on a shelf in one of the dozens of homes we lived in. Have to admit, they do look like clowns...
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7 years ago
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vikingqueen7 Found them!! Beautiful tree!
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7 years ago
Yes!! who needs kids!!
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7 years ago
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7 years ago
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Never knew there was a story! This year, mine is living in the front door wreath.
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7 years ago
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shanfed, you are having more fun than the kids, I think!
Judy Mishkin
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thats the way it goes sometimes.....
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No! When I was growing up, my mother brought that elf out each Christmas and I really began to hate him! Never have had one in my home and never will.
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Nope, never, nada. Didn't have to deal with it as a kid and don't want one as an adult.
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I have my elf since the 70's. A sweet happy looking little elf. My cat loved him and carried him around the house forever. So there, he was never in the same place.

This beloved elf now sits on a shelf all year. My cat today pays him no mind.
Andrea Westman
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for those who think it's creepy.. it's just a toy and parents can have some ridiculous fun with it. the kids enjoy it a bunch.. makes Christmas seem more like a seasonal event rather than just a present-opening day. ours has been taped to the wall with all our old school army figurines aiming at it.. the kids freaked. they were so concerned so we freed her the next night so she could be posed at the stove cooking chocolate trail mix bars. it's like a game. I only learned about it 3 yrs ago and we've had silly fun with the weirdness ever since.
tatts
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Not only is it creepy, it's mean-spirited. It's the worst of ugly commercialism.
patriciakorourke
7 years ago
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My grandkids also found an authoritan elf always watching creepy. By year 3, they threw Elf Johnny in the garbage. "He was always looking at us!"
Judy Mishkin
7 years ago
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'he sees you when you're sleeping... he knows when you're awake'.

i was raised that if you werent good santa wouldnt come, and if you were bad between christmas and new year's he'd come back and take away your toys. i was one terrified child!
chezbon
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Oh no!
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7 years ago
Last month I had a get-together so all my friends/neighbors can get the stories about my latest trip as well as share about their own recent trips. About a week afterwards, I was doing some dusting and spotted this elf on top of a hand made bird that I purchased on a trip to Canada some years ago. Say wha? I have no idea who did it and no one has come forth since. The elf stays where it was put. He'll go into my collection for my whimsy cottage I'm going to build within a few years.
eneguess
7 years ago
I laugh every time I see that someone has posted an inappropriate "elf on a shelf." I never followed this with my children......but these pictures do make me laugh.
nicky36
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what makes an elf so disliked? Mine amuse me and my cat as well.. She would bring him, to another location every day.
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I personally get great pleasure from seeing my grandkids work to find him.
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Elf-in-a-shelf wasn't a thing when my kids were young, and they are only recently launched and I am not yet a grandma. I had no idea there was a book behind this, or that there was even a controversy. I thought it was just a game of "find the elf" and didn't realize there was a context of elf watching you and judging whether you were naughty or nice.
Kym
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I never heard of Elf in a Shelf until this year. Seems amusing but a lot of work.
grumpy_tulips
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We have an Elf but it is a different brand and he isn't creepy looking and footless like the mainstream one. He just hides around the house, no elaborate displays, and the kids love going to find him every morning.
Renee Texas
7 years ago
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I don't...I think the concept is weird, and my children behave quite well without one. Conversely, I dont' want them thinking "oh, no one's watching I can misbehave!" later on. Our nativity wise men wander around at night though, and the kids like to find them each day...once they visited the fridge!
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lake1114
7 years ago
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wow, I think some of you are missing the whole point, while others do not know the concept of "Elf on the Shelf". The elf is meant to be fun and an exciting way to count down to Christmas and perhaps get children to listen and behave! The new ones are adorable. Some of you guys really over analyze the whole concept and take it much too seriously in my humble opinion!

How difficult is it really to pick up a 2 inch stuffed toy and put it in another place once a day for a game of hide and seek for your children to play each day for a few weeks out of the year? My 3 year grandson's elf hides with a Christmas book near by and when my grandson finds "Buster" and the book, he sits down with Mom and/or Dad and reads a story about Christmas. It's a fun game and a great way to spend some quiet time as a family and learn about the true meaning of Christmas. And amazingly, he remembered Buster from last year.

I don't find anything weird, creepy, commercialized or behavior confusing about spending quality time as a family and learning and sharing the meaning of Christmas. In fact, I find it fun, loving, learning and memory making. It's all what you make it to be. But hay, that's just me. Merry Christmas to all!
Raymond Lindsay
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We love our funny elves and our granddaughter who lives nearby also likes them
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Have you seen this? I LMAO!
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